Top bad sex habits that kills your sex life
For some, sex is one of the most enjoyable and wanted part of daily life while for others it is a necessity. But unfortunately there are couples who have long list of issues related to intimacy and certain rules that are followed before starting sexual encounter.
This long list of do’s and don’ts badly ruins ones sex life and unfortunately they never realize this fact. These kinds of habits which are turn off’s rather than turn on for your partner are referred to as bad sex habits. So before following these rules or habits blindly, just ponder over them for a while. Think are these rules dragging your partner away from you?
Bad sex habits can range from playing loud music, not talking about another woman while having sex, following normal sexual intercourse procedure, not experimenting with new ideas, switching off lights in bedroom, not getting naked in front of your partner due to physical inhibitions etc. Before these bad sex habits start affecting your sex life, think about them and be ready to make some important changes in your attitude to enjoy a better sexual life with your partner. Check out some sex bad habits written in this article that might ruin your sex life along with ways to shun them so that you can lead a pleasurable and enjoyable sex life!
- Not ready for experimentation: Change is a rule of nature and one who does not change according to environment becomes extinct. So, keep experimenting new things in your life! Remember that normal is boring and keep trying new stuff to spice up your sex life. Just as you try and experiment with clothes and food why not with sex. Life becomes monotonous if you keep on doing sex in same old positions. Experiment with new sex positions and try new sex tricks or ways of foreplay to add new dimension to your sex life.
It is true that it’s hard to get out of your routine sex habits as you get adjusted to them but try changing your mind set. Have an enjoyable and pleasurable sex life by experimenting and allowing your partner to try new things while having sex.
- Switching off the lights: Some women are shy about getting naked in front of their partner even after so many years of marriage. They feel shy because they do not want to show cellulite thighs or hanging belly or de shaped breast to their partners. Women do not realize that after so many years of marriage what matters is relationship and not thighs or arms. Remember that even the thought of seeing you naked is enough to excite them whether in lights or no lights at all. So just get out of stigma and enjoy the sexual encounter without any type of inhibitions about your body.
- Sex the last thing on your mind: Women think sex as a taboo and feel shy talking about sex in bedroom with their partner. They do not realize that sex is just another necessity of life. Just as we eat, drink and sleep same way sex is another important activity which should be enjoyed by couples on regular basis to have a healthy and cheerful life. Women should shift sex activity to the upper rung in the priority list in order to get close to their spouse. Sex is a food for fulfilling physical needs of body, so never think of sex as a last priority. Women should make efforts and take active part in sexual activity to stay cheerful and closer to their partner. If you are not much excited about having sex with your partner, try out some seduction and sexy tips to spice up your sex life. There are numerous sex tips that will put you on hot spot and you would love to have steamy sex session with your partner once he is back from his office.
- Not taking initiative: generally, women want men to initiate and start up sexual session and trust me it is one of the bad sex habits that would be addressed to! If you can ask your partner for outing, dresses then why not sex! Trust me, this will make him very happy and you’ll see how the sexual encounter reaches to another level. If you make the first move, it will turn on your spouse and he will not be able to hold his horses.
- Lack of communication: Though most of the married couples enjoys sex but they usually regard take it as routine activity. They think sex is an activity to satisfy their partner. Some women have the bad habit of not communicating their feelings and desires at all. Women do not share what really pleases them in bed to make sexual encounter more exciting. To make sex more enjoyable, try telling your partner your likes and dislikes when it comes to sex. Tell him clearly the best things you like while having sex with him. Make it a two-way conversation and also know what all things excite him and he likes about you and sex. These small things will bring drastic change in your normal and boring sex life. Just change your habit of not communicating and be honest in your approach and see the unlimited enjoyment you will receive after this.
