How to overcome fear of sex?
Do you suffer from sex anxiety? It is true that sex may appear little frightening, particularly if it’s your first time. Here’s how to boost your confidence.
You may be worried about premature ejaculation, not knowing where to put what and may not even know where the G-spot is. But worry not! Explore this article to know how you can transverse your terrifying experience into enjoyable one!
If you are going to experience sex for the first time, these feelings are completely natural. But keep in mind that anxiety can work against you when it comes to sex and dating. Why not try to approach the world of sexual intercourse maturely and with a positive attitude. Researchers have proved that the more prepared you are for a sexual activity; the more likely it is to be a positive experience for you, which will ultimately have an ongoing positive effect on you.
So prepare yourself for sexual session. Read reputable sex education books and fun sex tip books.
Avoid educating yourself by pornography. Porn depicts unrealistic version of sex and will not prepare you for the real thing. Books can be great help and interactive apps can be even better. It discloses all you need to know about female sexual anatomy. For e.g., the clitoris – an area you should know more in detail than just about locating the G Spot. But make sure you take one step at a time and do not overwhelm yourself by trying to know everything before even beginning the process.
You can reduce your anxiety by learning process and this will definitely boost your confidence as well. It would be better to start this learning process with a caring partner who is equally excited just like you to learn more about the world of sexuality.
You can find the right person with whom you can easily share that you are still a virgin and their response is respectful and enthusiastic about sharing the wonderful world of sex with you. Even if it’s not their first time, it is still their first time with you and that’s special for both of you.
Else, consult a Sexual Medicine consultant, from whom, you can get authentic sexual health information, so that you and your partner would be confident of the act.
